Bend, Oregon · Deschutes County

A guide for the seasons you’re in.

Weddings, memorials, premarital counseling, baby dedications, and a shared garden — held gently, out under the junipers or in a quiet room close by.

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Sagebrush and juniper on the high desert east of Bend at first light
The high desert east of Bend, first light.

Services & starting prices

Five things I’m asked to hold.

Every one begins the same way — a short note from you, and a conversation about what the day actually needs. The prices below are starting points, never the whole conversation.

  1. 01

    Wedding officiant

    A ceremony written around the two of you and the place you’ve chosen — a meadow, a riverside, a family garden. I’ll meet you beforehand, learn your story, and stand with you on the day.

  2. 02

    Funeral & memorial service

    A service that remembers a whole life, not just a summary of one. Held in a church, a home, a graveside, or out under the trees. I’ll help shape the order of the service and hold the room gently.

  3. 03

    Premarital counseling

    Sessions for couples preparing to marry — the practical, honest conversations worth having before the day arrives. Money, family, faith, expectations, and how you two argue.

  4. 04

    Baby dedication

    A short, warm blessing for a new child and the people who will raise them — in a church, in a living room, in a garden. Grandparents welcome. Offered free, always.

  5. 05

    Community garden

    A shared plot in Bend where neighbors grow food together and anyone can lend a hand. Come with gloves, or come with nothing at all. Free, and open to whoever shows up.

The places

Juniper, sagebrush, and the people who gather under them.

Most of the work happens outdoors — a meadow, a back garden, a shelterbelt of junipers at the edge of a field. The landscape does a good deal of the holding, and I try to stay out of its way.

A small outdoor wedding ceremony in a high desert meadow near Bend
Ceremony at the edge of the junipers.
A quiet memorial gathering outdoors beneath juniper trees
A small memorial under the junipers, soft morning.
Hands tending vegetables in a raised community garden bed
The community plot, mid-summer.

Field note: the light is best in the hour before sunset.

How it goes

Three steps, no guesswork.

You don’t need to know the right words. Most people start with half a sentence, and we take it from there.

  1. 01

    Send the form

    Tell me the kind of service, the date if you have one, and anything that matters to you. If a line doesn’t fit, skip it.

  2. 02

    We talk it through

    A call, or a visit here in Bend if that’s easier. We sort out the shape of the day and what it needs from me.

  3. 03

    I hold the day

    You’ll know exactly what happens and when. I arrive early, stay present with your people, and keep the day yours.

Two armchairs and a low table with mugs and a notebook in a calm counseling room
Where the premarital sessions happen.

If you’d rather just call, do that — the form is only there for convenience.

Service area

Deschutes County and Central Oregon.

Based in Bend and traveling outward — the county, the high desert, the Cascade foothills, and the small towns and ranches in between. If you’re not sure whether your spot is within reach, ask. The answer is usually yes.

Weddings Memorials Counseling Dedications Community garden

Reach me

Service area
Deschutes County & Central Oregon
Based in
Bend, Oregon
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Next step

Tell me about the season you’re in.

Weddings, memorials, and counseling across Deschutes County and Central Oregon. If you’re not sure which of the five fits your situation, call and we’ll find it together.

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